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Do The Women in Your Life Know Who and Whose They Are?

This is inspired by something I head this past Sunday past Sunday, from a son of God who I will just refer to as Tendai, as this is his given name, and it blew my mind. “Now A GREAT SIGN appeared in heaven: A WOMAN CLOTHED WITH THE SUN, with THE MOON UNDER HER FEET, […]

Lord, Let it be Ishmael, I have already waited 21 Years!

Re: Genesis 17:15-22 When reading this passage that God reminded me of this morning, I too laughed like Abraham. I felt Him. Its been 21 years for me too, in a manner of speaking, since the promise was given, and my life seems to grow older and drier too. How can He still say, in […]

Getting Ready For my Marriage

So, I am being prepared for a marriage.   He proposed to me again. Who can refuse a proposal like that – of a love so Total and True; a Love that is spread out in the view of all humanity, unabashedly at your feet? A love given with the promise of One Who cannot lie […]

He’s still Naming the Animals…wait

So why are you still not married? Next time you are asked this perplexing question give them something even more perplexing to think about. Tell them, “…he is still out naming animals and is getting really good at it.”  Its true you know. Adam has not even figured out that the animals are wondering why […]

While men slept…

“… But that night as the workers slept, his enemy came and planted weeds among the wheat, then slipped away. When the crop began to grow and produce grain, the weeds also grew.  “The farmer’s workers went to him and said, ‘Sir, the field where you planted that good seed is full of weeds! Where […]

Rape: Getting your Life Back by Choosing to trade your Ashes for Roses

In July this year (2004), I was part of the rape statistics recorded at the Nairobi Women’s Hospital’s Gender Violence Recovery Centre. When two weeks later media reports of a break in by thugs into the Thiongo’s apartment, the uneasy feeling in the pit of my stomach was confirmed by the couple’s admission that Njeeri […]

Turning the hearts of the Daughters to their Step-Fathers

My arrival in Mombasa two Mondays ago was met by a scandal that broke my heart. One of my hosts sat me down and shared the heartache of one woman that is echoed a thousand times in this vibrant coastal town, and perhaps, hopefully not, in other parts of the country. The woman was one […]